Sabtu, 17 Maret 2018

It's a quarter after one, I'm a little drunk and I need you now!

Senin, 05 September 2016

Adakah hal yang telah aku lewati dalam kehidupanmu?
Sikap dan rasa ingin tahu itu hal yang normal ketika seseorang mencintai dia tanpa batas. Dia bahkan mencoba menghabiskan waktunya berfikir bagaimana cara menyenangkan pasangannya. Justru hal yang abnormal dalam suatu hubungan manakala dy tidak memiliki rasa ingin tahu tersebut.

Seseorang yang telah membangun hubungannya sekian tahun tidak akan denga mudah membatalkan karena ada hal yang bisa membuat hubungannya pecah. Bisa saja! dan bagiku sangat mungkin terjadinya perpecahan. Tergantung faktor apa yang membuat dy hancur. Misalnya bertemen melewati batas.

Siapapun di dunia ini menginginkan pasangannya ingin mendapakan pasangan yang penuh dengan kesetiaan. Terkdang banyak orang yang tidak tahu apa itu setia. Apakah hanya sebatas menjaga dari kaum yang lawan jenisnya? Tidak. Lebih dari itu, adalah ketidaksesuain antara apa yang dikatakannya dengan apa yang diperbuatnya. Begitu mudah bagi pasangan untuk mengatakan I LOVE YOU namun tidak dibuktikan dengan sikap saling kasih sayang, justru menyakiti satu sama lain. Misalnya, saling membutuhkan satu sama lain. Perhatian juga sangat diperlukan. Bagiku yang membedakan pasangan dengan orang lain adalah bagaimana cara dy memperhatikan aku. Cara menggilku, seberapa sering dy ingin dihubungi, dan menceritakan hari-hari yang telah dilewati bersama.

Ketrbukaan satu sama lain adalah obat penenang bagi pasangan yang keras dan tidak akur. Merasa ingin didengar dan ingin mengungkapkan perasaaannya setiap waktu dan tidak ingin pasangannya melewati apa yang telah kerjakan dan terjadinya padanya. Bagiku fokus untuk mendengar dan bercerita adalah saah satu bentuk dari sikap respect. Aku sangat tidak suka dan merasa tidak dihargai, manakala sedang berbicara dengannya namun pada waktu yang sama dy juga cerita pada yang lain, atau dy saling BBMan namun dy juga BBM an dengan yang lain, Setidaknya bilang jika sambil ngobrol dengan yang lai. Bakal lebih sakit lagi bagiku, jikalau dy di waktu yang sama menghubungi orang yang jelas jelas suka dy.

Okay. Semoga semua berjalan lancar dan didekatkan dengan jodoh yang terbaik menurutNya. Aminn

Jumat, 26 Agustus 2016

Living in University Village, housing's 0ff- campus Ohio best close to stores and around 10 mins away to reach the main campus, is really fascinating and challenging as well. Good for me that my apt is precisely in front of the bus station (actually not that bus station but rather a bus parking area), which I enable to loot at those buses through my front room window. In addition, I it does help me a lot figuring out as the buses come and go obviously. Trust me! were you here, you would feel a comfortable student either as student  only or as employee with family members. Anyway, need to be noted that I am not doing this for UV promotion yaa. I am someone else to them, and my father works as a farmer in my hometown. LOL

Also I get free membership to use all facilities here such as computer service, sport center, and bus service. Yet since I have been living in here, I never try those free facilities. Not to worry, I will try them all and tell you how they work. The bus runs for every 30 mins to and from campus for this summer only, and I guess that the bus schedule will also change for the fall season. I check the bus schedule online though. A paper ticked on bus wall also provides the exact time when the buses arrive and depart.

Need to remember that every time you need a ride by this UV bus, be always keeping in mind that you bring the resident card with you. If don't, get ready to find another bus. Once have I seen Chinese girl wtih her mom heading in campus area. I am sure she is also new here and maybe her just has come to accompany her. As my friends always said, "Chinese students here mostly bring their parents to accompany them. As you know most of them get their own scholarship which is very wellknown as BMP ( beasiswa mama-papa). Good for them. Okay, back to the bus, she wanted to get on the bus as well as her mom. But she could not show her mom's residence card. And of course, the driver did not let her in. Good for you man! From this point, I like Americans doing this, the driver as the native american, never allows anybody who disobeys the rules. Having the card functions as a prove that you belongs to this village. Once you get it, take care of it because it is like a magic card which you can use it for any facilities here. Good for those for having it all, including me. Go on..

Another thing I can find comfortable is the internet connection. Although it excludes the pay rent fee, but its speeds is so super sonic, very fast! I like it most. You know lah in our country, wifi runs relatively slow unless you are the one who is using the wifi.

continue later see ya


Senin, 22 Agustus 2016

Different Apps, Different Rules!

At the moment, my big bro, Bang Firman, and I keep debating about an application, phone apps, which shows us prayer time. Frankly, the apps look alike at glance, but they show different things. I use Muslim Prayer on my phone that I downloaded it since I got here. This apps has been accompanying and guiding me through all the way  to do prayers based on the exact time. I have been using it and I believe it is right in that it shows me the right time to pray. Also, it could give me the direction of Ka'bah, and again it is right. Meanwhile, my big brother is using another apps which looks similar, Muslim Pro. Green appearance covers the background of a mosque.

The different thing is only the time in which my apps goes earlier than his. Magrib time is at 7.16 PM that what my phone shows me. While his shows that Magrib is a bit later, exactly at 8.20. Oh man! TIME MATTERS. Just imagine we all have fasting month and the only thing we have is the app in our phone which Adzan is barely heard unless in Jumaat prayer. And also you cannot hear it because it is echoed inside the room.

He came over and approached me, and said "Wake up!". You know what maybe you cannot believe that he always shouts these annoying words hundred times a day. As long as he is still awake and-off from his job. He too often does shout "Wake up!" until my ears start to melt. He then asked me to join him Magrib prayer, "Wake up! let's do Magrib prayer!" Bang, I am done", I answered proudly. Then he seemed so doubt and kept asking me. "What time did you prayer and what app do you use?". He started grabbing his phone and showed his time. It was very late. I cannot believe that mine was too fast. I prayed a hour earlier. That does matter. I kept arguing that my app is even more better. I showed him the strengths my app has. "Look at this! it is right, right? I already set the location  where we live now, Columbus Ohio". But still he kept showing his app which apparently the same. Nothing to worry bang, as long as I pray and God never sleeps. He knows that we have different apps. hahahahaha
Let's figure it out what is the best one!

After a few minutes arguing, I figured it out one thing. My app  is Muslim prayer not Pro, while he uses the pro. Of course different, mine I think should be changed. Well I trust  him as my senior here living longer than me and older as well. hhahaha
So thing is fixed!! problem solved! Now I get that new app, looking better and nice looking. Thanks my big bro.
Let's pray hahaha